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Best way to deal with arsehole work bullies?

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JustVent · 18/04/2018 23:12

I’ve had to go back to my old place of work for a few months. It’s 99% female and I’m in a higher position than before. All of the people who I worked with before I’m over the moon to be with again, the rest are new and there’s a select few who are known for being nasty bullying cunts and it seems im on the receiving end.

I’ve got a few months and I’ve been crying into my pillow like a 12 year old, but I don’t want to let them win.

They don’t do anything massive it’s allvery passive aggressive (apart from the FB messages they have sent me - ive blocked them). Going silent as I walk past, looking at each other and laughing, that kind of thing.
I know there’s worse, I endured much worse at school but it’s still making me paranoid and feel shit.

Any tips to help get me through the next few months? Thankfully it’s temporary.

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gamerchick · 18/04/2018 23:14

You have written proof of nastiness?

NellMangel · 18/04/2018 23:18

How awful. My advice is to stay as professional as possible. Head high, don't descend to their level of playground spite.

If Facebook messages are inappropriate, report them to HR.

I know it's tough being treated like this but just think they are just colleagues, not friends, not worthy of being in your life or headspace. Try to dismiss them from your thoughts. X

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