Went out with a few friends last night. One friend doesn't drive so I offered to pick her up, others do but was meeting us there. I left my DS (14 months - lone parent) with my parents for the evening while we went to dinner. My DS has 4 teeth coming through at the same time and was a bit grumpy but my parents insisted I still go.
After we had finished our meal my mum text so say that DS was fine, just getting tired but happy with cuddles. I had to get him home for work & Nursery next day (40 mins drive with pick up included) so decided to leave early. I asked friend who drives if she wouldn't mind taking non driving friend home to which she replied 'of course no problem' then I said to non driving friend 'is that ok? Sorry to abandon you!' She said it was fine don't worry. She has kids too and understands.
Was I rude? I feel awful about leaving her there although she had a lift home and no one minded 