I'm 27 weeks pregnant, due mid-July. DH has been invited to a stag do when I'll be 38 weeks. It's about a two hour drive from our house. I think he should go, either just for the day time activity, or overnight, and not drink so that he can drive if necessary. I think it would mean a lot to the groom (a friend of many years), and I already feel guilty about the fact that we can't go to the wedding because it's a week after the due date. I know the baby might be here by then, in which case he'd just have to lose the money he'd spent on the activity/accommodation. If not and I go into labour that weekend (which would be unlucky!) then I don't think two hours is a ridiculous journey time for him to get back. He's really torn - he wants to go, but thinks I'll change my mind closer to the time (in which case he wouldn't go) and so we'll end up wasting the money. So, AIBU to think that I'll be fine with him going to this stag do when I'm 38 weeks pregnant?