to think that when I've been good enough to make dp a cup of tea......

[fryalot]

even though I put the sugar in the wrong cup and he's using my cup, he should hurry up and drink it so I can have my mug back for my next cup?

Is your mug the one that says 'y'don't ave to be mad to work here - but it helps!'

as it happens, since you asked, my mug has Tinkerbell on it, and it holds a pint of tea. Dd1 bought it for me

A pint!

No wonder it's taking him a while to drink.

but I want another drink

Just tell him he looks like a big girl's blouse drinking out of your tinkerbell cup