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To move away from family because of Dsis?

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JustLayingOnTheSofa · 13/04/2018 19:02

I just don't know what to do anymore.

Dsis is volatile. If things don't happen the way she wanted it, people don't react the way she envisioned. She kicks off.

She's a fully grown adult, divorced and no kids but fuck me she makes life incredibly hard for herself and others.

If she has a go, you have to just take it or if you argue your corner, you are called unhinged and "no different from when you were a kid".

I can't take these games anymore, she doesn't see anything wrong with her actions. I just can't stay around.

Do I suck it up for 50 more years or just go and start a life for myself and DS somewhere new and far far from my Dsis

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IAmWonkoTheSane · 13/04/2018 19:03

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JustLayingOnTheSofa · 13/04/2018 19:11

I feel like that's my only option. I know it seems drastic but I'm close to minimal family who she also happens to be close to. It's highly likely she'd be there when I go round, I know immediate family will be devastated about not seeing DS but I feel like it's a tough luck situation

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