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To send birthday party invites 3 months in advance?

15 replies

StringandGlitter · 11/04/2018 18:49

Lo is desperate to hand out birthday invitations for party first week in July. Tomorrow seems too early to me. When is right time?

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StringandGlitter · 11/04/2018 18:50

invites are mostly going to year 2 children

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IAmWonkoTheSane · 11/04/2018 18:51

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Heratnumber7 · 11/04/2018 18:52

4 weeks before.
Though it doesn't really matter how early or late you give them out, people still won't RSVP.

helpmum2003 · 11/04/2018 18:52

I would wait til 1 month prior earliest. Choice of invitees may change and people may forget/be not keen to commit so far in advance.

nonwonderwoman · 11/04/2018 18:52

6 weeks in advance would be about the maximum amount for me. Any longer and I'd forget about it as too far away to think about. I think 3/4 weeks notice is about right.

pigshavecurlytails · 11/04/2018 18:52

2-3 months is normal here but on MN it seems to be illegal to do them more than a fortnight in advance.

BarbarianMum · 11/04/2018 18:53

Is lo a child? If so, about 3 weeks before the party is fine. Not now, no matter how desperate lo is. No-one will want to commit to a child's party this far in advance and they'll most likely be forhotten about.

However if by lo you mean your dh and they're for his 50th birthday bash and people are coming from all iver, then yes - now is fine. Smile

GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 11/04/2018 18:53

Can I hijack and ask when you’d send invitations out for a party in early September before term starts?

Cleanermaidcook · 11/04/2018 18:53

People will totally forgeg or not be able to commit to a childs birthday parth that far in advance. 2-3 weeks before is the norm.

PattiStanger · 11/04/2018 18:55

I wouldn't be able to commit to a child's party so far in advance so would have to decline rather then possibly mess you around. Tbh I'd think you were a bit odd to be asking so early

2-3 weeks is the norm amongst my DC's friends

SavoyCabbage · 11/04/2018 19:00

Tell them it's far too soon Md that their birthday is not for months.

I had a child in my class last year whose mother put the Christmas tree up in November as he was so excited and he couldn't enjoy what was going on all because he was always talking about Christmas. When we launched into nativitypractise and breaking open the glitter he was over Christmas.

JustHappy3 · 11/04/2018 19:27

8 weeks (2 months) is the norm round here.

Brian9600 · 11/04/2018 19:28

Here they always go out at least a month ahead and sometimes two. If you left it any longer, everyone would be booked up.

Almahart · 11/04/2018 19:31

Three weeks. We’re really busy at that time of year so would’ve able to commit earlier than that

Clayhead · 11/04/2018 20:57

Can I hijack and ask when you’d send invitations out for a party in early September before term starts?

When I did this I used to send them out towards the end of term in July.

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