I love my job, but I do find it utterly exhausting. I'm in my 14th year of teaching now
, so I'm much quicker at planning than I used to be in the first few years. I'm also less of a perfectionist as I just can't be (there isn't enough time in a day for every lesson to be perfect and kids mess up your perfect lessons anyway).
In terms of being family friendly, I drop dd off at the cm at 8 and pick her up between 5/5:30. So that's a relatively ok day for an 8yo, we eat dinner together, I have time to help her with her homework, I even volunteer at Brownies. I've worked 4 days so far this holiday, but that was a residential trip rather than report writing or planning.
I've found the last 3 years particularly difficult, not because of pressures in my school, but because the GCSE in maths changed for first exams last year (2 years of stress as we didn't know even roughly where the grade boundaries would be our whether the questions would actually look like the samples we'd been given), and now the A Level maths has changed for first exams next year (another 2 years of not quite knowing whether the questions will look like the samples, and not having textbooks published early enough). Add to that the fact that I'm teaching parts of the a level that I've never taught before and I'm working all the available hours before we even think about the rest of the work (marking, planning, report writing, revision sessions after school, lunchtime "homework help" sessions, detention duty, etc).
I really, really love the bits in the classroom with the kids. The paperwork stuff I don't enjoy, mainly because it's so time consuming, and a lot of my marking seems to be for slt or Ofsted rather than for the benefit of the pupils.