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Aibu to ask my sister to remove this photo from fb

32 replies

WTFsmh12 · 08/04/2018 15:14

Hi there , not sure if AIBU just would like your take on it please
Having had a particularly terrible marriage to a control freak, who ruled who I saw,what I did and where I went,I found the courage to leave after 7 years (2011) and I pretty much have rebuilt my life,got custody of my children ,after lengthy court battle and have also been in another relationship for a long time, my sister had been a steady rock in my life and I,too in hers. (She’s had a very rough life,drugs ,drink etc) anyway she knows how much I detest to see anything from that part of my life,. I’ve gone on to my fb to find she has posted a picture of me at my wedding to said control freak,😔 my partner will see it and I don’t think he’ll be too happy ,And she’s tried tagged me in it (also in picture is my father and niece) I immediately asked her to take it down, or cut me out using an editing and repost (as it is a lovely picture of niece and father) but she’s replied saying she’s cut him out of it (the control freak) and she doesn’t see my problem?? Aibu?

OP posts:
Thinkingofausername1 · 08/04/2018 16:04

Block her. Seems she doesn't respect you very much.

Mrsmadevans · 08/04/2018 16:12

I am glad you have sorted this OP. It would be a crying shame for you to fall out over something to do with your horrible ex.

SomeKnobend · 08/04/2018 16:20

She sounds a bit cunty. I'd unfriend her on fb, then you and all your fb friends won't see any upsetting shit she's inexplicably decided to display.

Glug44 · 08/04/2018 16:21

Report the photo it will get taken down.

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 08/04/2018 16:21

OP just informationally you can change your privacy settings so that you have to ok everything tagged with you on it -it doesn't go on your timeline unless you ok it.
That might help?

Juells · 08/04/2018 16:22

No matter how oblivious someone is, why would they post a picture of your wedding given the circumstances. And then argue about it.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 08/04/2018 17:18

Don't know Juells. But as OP has it pretty much resolved now I also don't know why posters continue to advise she get the picture taken down or to tell OP that her DSis is 'cunty'.

Sometimes people don't think about how their actions will impact on others... perhaps!

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