Following a recent thread, this isn't really an aibu but I would like many people to see it so posting here - don't really want to be flamed as bu 
My autistic son had a lifetime award of DLA and I knew the day would eventually come when he would have to move over to PIP and I literally dreaded it - physical dread, anxiety/feeling sick etc as I was so sure he would lose this lifeline because of the horror stories in the press and even on mn.
That day came just before Xmas last year - I spent hours working on the claim form. I didn't have any recent evidence to provide as once my son left the education system, all ongoing support from CAMHS and Social Services fell away.
I was told that everyone has to have a face to face assessment and I tried to prepare my son for this eventuality.
Anyway, the medical assessor rang me - she was absolutely fabulous - and, after an lengthy telephone conversation, she told me that she would be recommending that no face to face would be necessary.
I today received a letter telling me that my son has been awarded PIP at the higher level for both areas for ten years. That is ten years of not dreading the envelope falling through my letterbox. Now, I know I will have to go through all of this again in ten years but I wanted to post today to give other people some hope.
I was so scared of applying based on all the horror stories in the press etc that I almost didn't bother to re-apply on his behalf. But I am so glad I did.
He is deserving of this support as are thousands of other people - it is part of the scaffolding that allows him to function day to day.
And I really hope that my experience will encourage others to apply even if they feel the process is arduous and to not be put off by all the negative press - I feel nothing but anger that people that genuinely need this support have to go through this process but there are medical assessors out there who are kind and receptive to the difficulties that those with Autism have.
I could actually cry with relief and I hope my experience will encourage others who are in need of support or supporting children to apply.