Need to find amy /amie !

[Looiloo79]

Had a few drinks and feeling like a dick but need to sort some shit in my head !!

Aibu to want the find a woman I met on a night in Manchester in February ??

I'm totally straight but met this girl after a crazy night out and can't stop thinking about her. We had a great night and had lots of fun.

I don't know what I want anymore and it's destroying my relationship cos my head is a mess about it all. She was gorgeous and due to get married but never done anything with another woman (like me) but we clicked like nothing I had felt before. How the fuck do I find her and if I can't I how do I get this shit out of my head !!!

Leave well alone- she was about to get married

She’s due to get married. You do absolutely nothing.

Why would she want more though if she was going to get married? I know you are right but just need to know she's ok and to talk !

You're not being unreasonable to "want" to see someone you clicked with again.
There's nothing at all wrong with wanting something. However you would be very unreasonable to pursue her. She's getting married leave her be. Let her live in your memory. Don't complicate things. She won't thank you and you won't thank yourself.

I've tried to find her to no avail. I guess you are right but it doesn't help my confusion and feelings. I just want her to be ok and have a happy marriage. All I see is her face every time I go to sleep. Feel bloody mental but want that night back to get my head Straight!!!

OP,
Memories should always remain just that.....you can never recreate that "one magic moment" in life.

Reflect on what this person represents to you (adventure? Freedom? Variety?) and deal with the issues that raises

“ I just want her to be ok and have a happy marriage”

No you don’t. You want to have an affair with her. Be honest with yourself ffs.

You’re both in relationships. Do you think it makes what you did and are planning to do any less cheating?

Sort your head out. Work on your relationship or end it with integrity. Don’t sleep around, whatever the genitals.

So your 'Chasing Amy'??? Like the Kevin Smith film? Nice try.

Oh I love that film.

OP it would be seriously, seriously out of order and weird for you to find/contact another straight woman you met on one night out two months ago with amorous intentions. Like, call the police weird. Seriously, just think how you'd feel if a man did that to you unwanted. It would be such a violation.

I don't know what film you mean! Don't understand your comment.

I'm feeling different about it all this morning and have a clear mind so won't pursue my confusing feelings.

I suppose I have some inner issues to deal with as a pp stated. I need to not be a dick and concentrate on my own relationship.

Thanks for your responses. Don't usually post drunken shit on a public forum!