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AIBU keeping this to myself?

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Blangarang · 06/04/2018 18:33

I've just had a very odd conversation at work with a colleague and as I can't tell anyone in real life, I've come here to unburden!

I walked in on a conversation with one of our managers and my colleague. All I heard was him saying wait and her saying she didn't understand what he was doing and when I walked in they stopped and he left.

She was quiet but I initially minded my own business. I then hear and little sob and realise she's actually crying a little bit. Cutting through the not wanting to tell me, she cracked and told me that the manager had kissed her (he doesn't directly manage us, but is a manager of a linked department). She said they got on and she thought he was attractive but he's with a long term partner so didn't see him as an option. She said it came out of no where, they'd been discussing work then his boredom/frustration them boom, kissed her. What I'd walked in on was him being confused as to why he'd done that and her asking what he was doing risking his life (family wise)/job kissing her.

She's begged me not to say anything - would IBU to do what she says? She's younger than him and it stunned me he'd do such a wtf thing

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AnneLovesGilbert · 06/04/2018 18:38

Don’t say anything. It’s not your story. If she wants to do anything about it she will.

Mightymucks · 06/04/2018 18:38

I would urge her to report it herself but you should respect her wishes.

Blangarang · 06/04/2018 18:49

I think I'm still in shock from hearing it let alone the poor woman it happened to!

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MinisterforCheekyFuckery · 06/04/2018 19:12

I would just encourage her to report him but respect her decision if she chooses not to. There's not much else you can do to be honest.

Blangarang · 06/04/2018 19:19

On a selfish note, I feel so awkward having to see the man every day knowing what he did. He's been with his partner nearly ten years and they have a 3 year old

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