To think stbx is a hypocritical arse!

[LushLemons]

When we were together he would quite regularly take his daughter (11) from a previous relationship to his mums on contact weekends and insisted this was because she needed one on one time with him and it wasn't fair she had to share her time with our two . That was fine but it did leave me in the lurch a bit with out two small children (5 & 12 weeks). Now that we have split up I've suggested he has our two on the opposite weekend so as to not disrupt the time he has with his dd.....oh no! He want them all together so she can help him with the other two! And he said it's good to have them together! I agree with that but it all feels a bit hypocritical, like it's all just for his benefit and not the children! I was slated for suggesting he take our older ds to his mums with him when he had her and now it's a good idea 

Sounds like you are well rid. All about him as you say.

Do your two get on with their step sister?

He was hypocritical the first time, now he is right its best they all see each other. But yeah of course he is thinking of himself first.

Half sister, and yes our older ds thinks the world of her.

Of course he should have all of the children at the same time. How else will they maintain a relationship?

My point is that it want so important for him when we were together. And his first response was more telling, her wants her to help with the little ones

When you were together he didn’t want the hassle of having all the kids at the same time. Now you are apart, he doesn’t want the hassle of having kids every weekend. You’re well shot of him.