AIBU?
My husband and I work from home
I’ve 2 children living with us he has one who comes 1/2 the week
I do everything in the house for everyone
He does more hours self employed than I do he has a separate business and we have one together.
5 years he’s out our lives on hold and I’ve had enough now it’s too much I’m feeling very lonely
He works 7 days a week times are all I’ve rthe place as what he does self employed aren’t set
He can work early to late or mixed up hours on and off most the day.
We are having a house built and he’s put our lives on hold until it’s done I tell him we need a life with the children and a marriage
He too tired for sex he’s too tired for anything
His child aged nearly 12 comes here and he spends no time with her at all I tell him it’s wrong.
He I know is addicted to his self employed job I’ve asked him to get help I hear when the house is done about everything
At first I was well okay this won’t be for long but 5 years in I’m tired of feeling like his mum and we don’t do anything
I have taken the girls out over the years mainly alone we’ve not had a family holiday and when we went on 3 day honeymoon he took his laptop and worked one of the 3 days
AIBU saying yes I know the house is important but he choose to have a child he wanted a wife and we should come first occasionally ?
Please no bashing I’m exhusted with all the pleading he just says “ when the house is done “
It should be late this year