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AIBU?

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Jeez get a room

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Dollyparton3 · 02/04/2018 12:50

So, Dbro has recently separated and got together with the woman he was suspected of having an affair with (a story for another day)

He’s been on and off with this woman for over a year, most recently a fortnight ago he declared it over, this weekend he’s told all of our friends that she’s the “love of my life”.

Last night we were at a friends house having had Easter lunch there. He invites the new lady round early evening (didn’t ask the host) and then proceeded to behave like a teenager in front of everyone. Totally ignored the rest of us, huge PDA with her, snogging like he was stuck to her face, at one point picking her up and carrying her round the lounge dancing to music, I could go on.

This isn’t the first time, he did the same on Friday at my house where we may as well have not been in the same room as them. And on not occasions there’s been very teenage snogging behaviour in front of everyone. If he’s not sucking her face he’s mooning all over her (you know the thing, foreheads touching, whispering sweet nothings etc)?

I’m so embarrassed and my other half and I have decided not to invite them to anything until they get over themselves but i’d Just rather say something. But how do you broach this one? “Hey bro, save it for the bedroom?” What would you say and I guess. AIBU?

OP posts:
phlewf · 02/04/2018 15:08

Excuse me. I fully admitted it’s childish. There isn’t an issue to be addressed, it’s who they are. When some did address it they were offended and refused to change.
Don’t know what your friends are like but I love mine, we have been friends for years but like families we all get annoyed with each other behaviour occasionally.
Op was asking for advise and lost of people were saying they have experienced similar with relationships that started as affairs. I was offering a different experience.

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