To think if someone knocks on your door to tell you they are having an affair with you DH, then it’s probably true?

[SweetFanniAdams]

I keep thinking about something a male work friend told me about how a woman he had met at one of his kids sports activities had knocked on his front door and told his wife that they were having an affair, she gave her details about where and when etc.
He talked his way out of it by saying she’d used details of his whereabouts that she’d got from chatting to him while the kids were doing by their sports and that he thought she was mentally ill and needed help.
Now I know this guy and he it most certainly not the faithful kind so she may well be telling the truth.
Anyway, I keep thinking what I would do / think if someone came knocking on my door.
Who would you believe?

Preston I am not really a regular so I don’t know what it means.
Yes I know this guy well and we are very familiar and comfortable with each other but more like a relative than anything else. I know way too much about him

The lady I know did it because she wanted to be with the guy and decided to force the issue.
Pretty awful for the wife, but it worked out well for the mistress, she married the guy and they've had a couple of children. As an outsider you can never really judge, but the relationship seems stable and happy, and I've never heard any rumours of either cheating again.

It did happen to me with previous partner and yes it was true.
It was her way of making some movement in “their relationship”. She wanted to warn me she loved him, couldn’t live without him and would fight tooth and nail to take him from me. Then she started crying and said she was sorry, he really loved me....nutcase!!!

Anyway something had happened between them but our relationship was crap anyhow so I wasn’t surprised or even angry. Yes I did believe her but I sent her off on her way without inviting her in for coffee. We Broke up shortly afterwards but he had nothing further to do with her.