Aibu to think if you are unable to be allowed out unaccompanied as you are a danger to yourself, if you cannot make any meals for yourself, if you cannot bath and clean yourself properly, you need help with your medications, you cannot make financial decisions and the drugs you take knock you out so hard that you wouldn't hear a smoke alarm and may not be able to escape even if you did hear it. Then you should not be living at home alone with only home care visits.
something has happened between Mil and fil who was Mil primary carer along with four home visits per day, I don't want to say what as it's personal information to them, however it has meant fil has left the house and the la has assessed Mil as being able to live alone with just the care visits during the day. Mil has Huntingtons which will progress even though she is still mobile(only just) at the moment. My dh and bil have set up motion sensor cameras to be able to watch her, she also has lifeline button round her neck and they think this is enough and she'll be fine, dh does stick his head in the sand where Mil is concerned, Mil and fil have both been subject to financial abuse from a previous carer in the past and fil has full capacity so if this could happen when he's there how vulnerable is Mil going to be alone? She does refuse to go into a carehome but I think she has been assessed previously as not having capacity. they are talking about her going into a warden controlled accommodation but still with the same care package to me that also sounds like not enough how is it different from being at home with the lifeline? Also fil is an alcoholic and was told that if he was discovered drunk while caring for her then they would take Mil into full time care regardless of his wishes to keep her at home, so with the problems outlined above and ss previously saying if he can't look after her full time she had to go into a home, does this care plan seem feasible to you?