Interfering with your parents

[GreenVoyage]

If your DF was being a dick and really upsetting your DM, would you pull him up on it even if you weren't there? Or is this none of your business and you should leave well alone?

Not sure. Is he usually a dick? What's he done?

If i were there i would, if i wasnt then probably not unless my mother wanted me to.

I've not long had this. Yes we did pull him up harsh as a group of siblings. To be fair, it was pretty serious what he did though

My DM came over yesterday and when I asked how DF was, I could tell something had happened. She told me he had been making remarks about her long her, saying she should cut it, he doesn't like it long, it looks a mess etc and this was in front of my teenage sister and her boyfriend.

This has obviously left DM upset and feeling unattractive, she was also embarrassed in front of my sister and her boyfriend.

I've phone my DF this morning whilst he's in work and told him he's upset DM and he should apologise. I told him, making comments like that aren't on and he's made her feel like shit. I've suggested he apologises, gets DM some flowers and stop making comments. He's not being funny, he's being horrible and an arse.

He seemed to understand but probably didn't appreciate his daughter butting in but he needs to know that speaking to anyone like that is out of order. I wasn't rude to him and was very not so chatty with him.

I hope I haven't made things worse.