Probably v outing but never mind.
Last summer I developed a large, rapidly growing breast abscess (it was about the size of an apple under my areola). I was referred to breast clinic and sent for an ultrasound. Ultrasound operator confirmed it was a sealed abscess "full of gunk" and then decided to biopsy it despite no request from the consultant to do so. Consultant then saw me before I left, aware of biopsy. No antibiotic cover offered (have since discovered this is best practice guidelines).
Over the next few days I became very unwell, fever, rifles, vomiting, breast hugely swollen and red/sore, pus leaking from biopsy site which expanded and started going black. On gp advice I presented at a&e. Another ultrasound confirmed biopsy had ruptured abscess and contents had dispersed through my breast tissue. I was admitted.
Following day I had extensive surgery to remove necrotic tissue. The day after that I was taken back to theatre as there was more necrotic tissue, I was then isolated and informed I had necrotising fasciitis. I spent three further days in hospital, then discharged in oral antibiotics, district nurses daily to repack wound. They ended up removing g about 50% of my breast tissue. I was unable to work for four months.
Seven months in and wound us still 2" deep and being packed though I am now in work. Aftercare has not been great from the hospital side - GP surgery nurses have been fab though. Yesterday I was in clinic and saw a registrar, I asked about reconstruction (was told by surgical team at the time this would be done). He "doesn't see there will be a need for it and it looks ok". It is not ok. One breast is about 3 cup sizes smaller than the other, hangs in a sad triangle, folds itself in half if I put an underwire bra on and doesn't fill the cup, half the nipple is gone, a great puckering scar has formed. It looks like an anus. I have a boob anus.
AIBU to expect them to at least try to make it look normal? I'm being made to feel I should be grateful they saved my life. My life would not have been in danger if they hadn't burst the bloody thing. I could have it drained via needle aspiration with no surgery at all. Several people have suggested I sue for med neg. what would you do in my position?