I was on the originals thread back last year, and have been reading these with interest. I am vehemently against any bitching comments, but really interested in the debate here.
I have a public Instagram account. It's tiny, but I have seen friends get built up, and shot down, over the last few months over freebies and disclosure. I have people who are friends, that don't declare freebies - it's only when I see others in our hobby circle with the same thing on the same day I realise. Though people are becoming more switched on. I have received items myself for free - and it's flattering - but tbh it is obvious when i do a post about something #gifted as opposed to self bought, and the engagement isn't there. I am careful to only engage with companies I currently purchase from.
My account is public but never features my children's faces. Every now and then they are mentioned, but never their names, nor front shots. Backs of heads is a favourite. I think even those who are now avid friends and followers would struggle to tell you their names and ages. Which is why my account is public.
I follow someone through a hobby with thousands of followers. Her children are always in her stories, I would be able to tell you their names, their school, what they got told off for again last night. It really really unnerves me, being someone who's done child protection training.
With regard to MPs post, I think a lot of it is change because the posters have changed. Those that followed MOD or MP a year or so ago, they didn't follow for how their content is now. People followed MOD/FOD (not singling them out, but just as an example) for their posts, but in the last twelve months they've been eclipsed by holidays and adverts. And their followers have gone up so drastically, you're going to of course get a lot more opinions than a small account would.
Personally there's no way I could afford to buy a scamp and dude jumper. And seeing the small number of instamums I follow all wearing them, just makes them a little more unrelatable whilst I sit in a new look special. Am I tempted to buy a £20 t-shirt for the mummysocial charity campaign, which I can't afford, in a chance of featuring in a post? Of course, and that's why it will be wonderful and thrive. But instead I'll chuck £5 in a charity pot.
Sorry, that was a few days worth of reading these threads coming out in one go 😂