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CF neighbour and their vans (parking one)

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PeedOffParker · 27/03/2018 12:40

I live in a relatively nice area. Get on well enough with my neighbours at the front but this issue has to do with the back access to our house and the garages surrounding it (most of the owners we don't know. I saw owners but we all rent them from the council).

We are very fortunate to have back access to or garden with gates and a hardstand with enough space to put one car. It's all above board, checked the planning and with the council when we bought the property and have right of access to it.

Surrounding this is like a cul de sac of garages (how do I put a diagram on here?)
We also rent a garage, and we're not supposed to park outside them so OH's got a car in there that we're doing up.

One of the garage owners has a van that is too big for his garage and parking is awful on the streets and so he parks it in front of his garage. The space is not very big and because of the length of the van the person who's garage is opposite would have real trouble reversing in or out of their garage (saw that neighbour one day and apparently only uses it for storage and was okay for him to park his van there) so I thought okay, fair enough he's not impeding our access or anyone else's even though you're not supposed to park there I know how bad the parking situation is not really any of my business. (I've also seen cars parked in from of garages there for maybe 1-2 hours at a time that are probably visitors. Again, fair enough.

Sorry that was long but it's all relevant to the next bit. I had a friend pop over to visit, she was literally coming over for an hour, so I told her to park in front of MY garage (everyone had good access to get in/out apart from the van man but he is never usually home on a weekday at 11am so thought it would be fine)

Half an hour into my friend's visit I hear someone beeping their horn out the back. I go out to investigate and he's hanging out of the window effing and blinding as I walk out, asking me if the car was mine. My friend said it was hers and he said "well you need to move it so I can park my fucking van" he couldn't get the swing to park It properly in front of his garage.

He was quite intimidating and my friend went back to get her keys and I asked him if he could stop shouting and that it would only be a minute.

All I got back from him was "I need to get my fucking van in you silly fucking c*nt my son is sick"

I then realise his ~4 y/o son is sitting in the passenger seat. Now I definitely know how protective I get over my kids when they're ill but there's no need for that kind of language.

My friend returns with all her stuff moves her car and apologises that's she's going to just go because we'll never find another space and she doesn't dare leave her car there again. It's all over in about 5 minutes and has been blown ridiculously out of proportion. I offer my apologies to the man but he just grumbles and swears and mumbles about entitled arseholes Hmm.

I go back to my garden, lock the gate and get on with my day albeit a little bit rattled.

A couple of days later I open my gates to find another van in from of another garage, and both vans are now parked in such a way that I can't drive my car out of my hardstand. I've caught sight of him in and out of the back of both cans from my bedroom window so I can only assume he's hired another garage in order to park a second van Hmm to deliberately try and block us in. Luckily he still goes to work in the bigger van so can get out during the day but no way I'd be able to get in if I got home later than him.

I've been on to the council about it and they said they'd send enforcers round as it's a no parking zone but that hasn't happened. Twice I've tried to knock (with DH in tow for support) and he hasn't answered. I just don't really know what to do at this point Sad

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PeedOffParker · 27/03/2018 12:51

Ahh okay I made a new account for this as I'm a long time lurker and can't post a photo for 48 hours Blush

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AuntFidgetWonkhamStrongNajork · 27/03/2018 12:54

Get onto the council again. Tweet them with a photo just to jog them into action.

SleepFreeZone · 27/03/2018 12:55

Oh how frustrating OP. I don’t know what the hell you can do in this situation to be honest.

PeedOffParker · 27/03/2018 12:55

This might work? ibb.co/diHzqS

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Lacucuracha · 27/03/2018 12:58

Yes, keep on the council. Keep a log, take pictures.

Gudgyx · 27/03/2018 13:02

Here you go OP

CF neighbour and their vans (parking one)
SleepFreeZone · 27/03/2018 13:03

Maybe get a camera strapped to your chest like those blokes from ‘can’t pay’ then keep bothering your neighbour about the van situation in the hope he threatens you and you can take the video evidence to the police.

PeedOffParker · 27/03/2018 13:05

gudgyx thank you!

I am keeping a log, as I say it's not too much of an issue if we don't have to go out in the evening but I'm dreading having to get out quick one day and he won't answer the door to move them. Literally had no problems with anyone but this one thing. Council don't seem to interested if I'm honest. One on the phone said 'well you've got your front door so he's not blocking access to your property". No but he's blocking me from moving my car Shock

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PeedOffParker · 27/03/2018 13:06

sleepfreezone I would if I could ever manage to catch him. Always see him on the garages from my upstairs window and gone when I get down but he won't open the door to me Angry

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Gudgyx · 27/03/2018 13:12

oh do piss off purili

OP, I'd play him at his own game and start parking in front of my own garage. When he comes knocking, ignore him. Eventually when you see him you can say you have no other choice, as he is blocking your space with his big ass vans

Dadstheworld · 27/03/2018 13:20

How does he have the cheek to eff and blind at you while disregarding the rules on parking?

Park on your drive, keep on at the council. He's relying on you rolling over for him.

KatharinaRosalie · 27/03/2018 13:24

CF. He has no more right to park in front of the garage than you. Park in front of your garage.

NellythePink · 27/03/2018 13:30

Yeah, park in front of your garage. I'm sure that will bring him out of the woodwork. Only do it when DH is there though, you don't want some sweary aggressive bloke in your face without some back up

BrownTurkey · 27/03/2018 13:36

Well, I wouldn’t park in front of your garage as it is not allowed and you have just asked enforcement officers to attend. Sorry he was so horrid. He may well continue to hold a grudge unfortunately.

GingerFoxx · 27/03/2018 13:39

What a CF. This is the kind of thing that would make me feel really awkward and worried. Hope you and your DH can sort

gooseygoosegoose · 27/03/2018 13:40

Bloody hell. If gets aggressive like that with you again call the police. You can't go screaming cunt at people. His poor wee boy in the van.

Keep on at the council. Maybe buy an old banger and dump it in the way! Claim no knowledge of said car!! Wink

Peachesandcream15 · 27/03/2018 14:04

Why can't you park.outside your garage?

lalalalyra · 27/03/2018 14:27

Is his van a works van or is it just his own van?

flumpybear · 27/03/2018 14:34

I'm woth giving him a taste of his own medicine and perhaps putting a note in his windscreen and his door stating you'll contact the council if it continues but you e no alternative but to park in front of your garage as you can't be blocked In

What an arsehat!

Eveforever · 27/03/2018 14:44

Parking in front of your own garage when you've asked for enforcers to come round is a stupid idea, sorry. I'd call the Council again and every day until they sent someone round. I don't know if calling 101 for advice is a good idea? I don't envy you having to deal with some an intimidating and unreasonable neighbour. I don't suppose he has a nicer more reasonable partner you could sort things out with?

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