Work want to use my photo

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My work want to use my photo at the end of a sales email.

I have said I feel really uncomfortable about it and it's a sales email, it just feels a bit cringe to me.

I have said they can't use it. I feel like they are annoyed with me.

I have no form of social media whatsoever as I don't like it. It feels like an invasion of privacy for me.

I've said no in the past to this type of thing too.

There is nothing in my contract ref this type of thing.

Aibu?

I hate having my photo taken. I look completely different in photos.

I don't have recent photos on social media.

However, I had to have a headshot for work - it was super awful.

In fact when I met a client he said (in far more words) 'you look so different too your photo, a lot younger'

I wish I'd had the balls to refuse at the time for the tears it caused trying to get a photo that wasn't awful.