I've posted this in the relationships topic but could do with some more traffic. I'd like to hear your experiences of couples therapy, good and bad.
My husband and I have been married for 2 years, 1 DC. We don't live like a married couple. When I look at our relationship I think it looks more like two people that share a flat, rather than two people who are married, have a child together and love and care about each other.
In my mind, we seem to rub alongside each other as long as I go along with him and what he thinks. If I disagree it ends up in an argument.
In his mind I am horrible to him and always nagging him. He dismisses the underlying issues and thinks that if I am nicer to him everything would be ok.
Sex life is dire. We would both like to improve this but we seem to be constantly irritated by each other and that hardly makes you want to jump in to bed with each other.
I really want to make this work. We have a lovely life, a lovely DC and I do love him. Does anyone have any experience with couples therapy, positive or negative that might be useful in this situation.