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To think working as a junior doctors looks shit?

33 replies

Whoevercanbethere · 25/03/2018 21:55

Watching JD on iPlayer and know that i could never be a doctor.

So much responsibility, such a busy work life and too much blood and gore.

Could you do it?

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HicDraconis · 25/03/2018 23:58

Typo. I started work 8am Saturday and finished 8pm Monday.

24h Saturday was either admitting from A&E or covering ward patients, we then swapped and the 24h Sunday was doing the opposite. 8-8 Monday was sorting out the admissions from the weekend.

Would go to bed Monday night as soon as I left the ward, ready to be back in on Tuesday for 7am to get notes, blood tests etc ready for the ward round at 8.30.

These days it gets to 4.30 and the house surgeon who started at 7.30 has to leave. The one working evenings doesn’t start till midday. It’s very disjointed with little continuity of care and I cannot see how the hours are any more family friendly although they are definitely fewer in total.

HellsRangerz · 26/03/2018 00:37

I think is that “a sense of vocation” does figure very highly in a lot of people’s motivations?

Once you get the urge to do something, you want to follow it through.

I’m not saying everyone has the urge to “do medicine” but I think that most doctors couldn’t think of doing anything else.

Arguably, I’d be a lot “better off” if I’d stayed partnered to my well off ex (happy with no kids) and worked part time as a receptionist somewhere posh in between buying things for the house using my ex’s “high six figure” salary and planning our next holiday.

Maybe write a shit blog so I could say how creative I was.

I’m now a single, mature STEM student (not medicine) . Even choosing masters courses , I’m going to aim for the one which costs more but will give me a better lead into the kind of research I want to do.

I want to contribute to solving stuff at the highest level I personally can manage (which I’m sure won’t be headline grabbing or have a huge amount of social status, but it’s what I want to do)

I actually don’t care if im sometimes a bit in my overdraft and live in a one bedroom flat on the shite end of town?

To save for my masters, I have to work part time in a supermarket. I genuinely don’t care if “Dave” the deputy manager at the supermarket drives an Audi at 23 and earns three times more than I’d get as a PHD stipend.

I’m not Dave. Dave isn’t me. Our motivations are different. Also I can’t drive Grin

I wouldn’t say I’m hugely altruistic or even unusual? I’ll need to think about stashing money away for retirement at some point, but I’ll mindfully and practically address that when the time comes.

If someone told me that I could get (say) a business job on £250000 a year tomorrow but NOT ever doing the research I want, I’d say no.

“The heart wants what the heart wants”

opinionatedfreak · 26/03/2018 00:39

It is terrible and lots and lots of them are leaving as a result.

Life as a consultant Isn't much better and years of pay stagnation is really kicking.

Patient expectations are also getting higher and higher. It is always the consultant who gets named in the complaint even if the error arose with appointments clerk, or the family themselves who failed to read or watch the provided pre-attendance information.

I'm tired. I'm meant to have another 27years ahead of me.

I'm actively looking for another career.

blaaake · 26/03/2018 01:16

I wanted to be a doctor. For ages. I was clever enough, straight A's but I'm far too squeamish. Disappointing, really.

HPandBaconSandwiches · 26/03/2018 01:19

Being a doctor is actually fascinating and a privilege. The physiology of day to day life, and interacting with patients who let you in to their darkest moments with trust. The amazing ability to save a life, allieviate pain and explain what is going on to the patient and family.

I had almost forgotten.

I work abroad now after nearly 20 years as an NHS doctor and I’m slowly getting back to loving my job.

Being a doctor - junior or senior, is a great life choice. Of course it’s hard work, but it has amazing rewards. Working in the NHS - not so much. Sad

Puffycat · 26/03/2018 01:20

It is shit..........trust me

CircleSquareCircleSquare · 26/03/2018 01:22

Did it. Hated it. Left

nocoolnamesleft · 26/03/2018 01:26

Did it. Hated it. Survived it. Doesn't really seem much better as a consultant, these days. Unless things improve, which seems unlikely, I fully expect this job to kill me.

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