To ask him to take his piercing out?

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My dp of around 6 months has his tongue pierced. He is lovely in every way except for this. I hate it so much, it makes me not want to kiss him because it bangs on my teeth and goes through me, to the point we have never really had a proper snog because the second it hits my teeth it goes through me and i pull away BUT i know its his choice and im not sure how id take to be told to remove my belly bar for example.

So would it be really out of line for me to ask him to remove it? And if its not how should i go about it? I dont want to fall out over it but i do want to be able to kiss my partner without going all blughh.

I used to have my tongue pierced and I’ve dated guys with pierced tongues and I’ve never had this problem.

Has he still got the big metal bar they use for the first few weeks and never graduated down?

Buy him a smaller plastic ball tongue bar as a nice wee present and hopefully bobs your uncle.

Sounds like you two kissing wrong! I have my tongue pierced but have never had this problem.

Uh ginky, I responded to the half I had an issue with. Then separated the lines and responded to the op. Feel free to fuck off yourself though. Or maybe just learn to read.

Danny you wouldn't believe how quickly tongue piercings close up.

Isn't telling posters to fuck off against talk guidelines?

Ugh I’d tell him to take it out or no more kissing. You could seriously damage your teeth (and tongue piercings are revolting).

Had mine done in my youth. Wasn't an us due. His bar may be too long.
I miss mine. Too old and job too responsible to have it done again