AIBU leaving his clothes in the dryer!

[Pho2Mum]

So I am feeling pretty pissed and frustrated. Everytime my STBEH or so I wish, leaves his clothes in the dryer or his dirty dishes for me to wash up. Bear in mind, he contributes nothing to the household moneywise nor does he participate in housekeeping. We have my ds together. I've had enough of being his slave. So this morning, I asked him to take his clothes out of the dryer so I can wash my ds clothes and he goes 'It's my dryer. I bought it and I'll leave my clothes inthere if I want to.' He carries on I did not clean this and that. I said 'just take your clothes out of the dryer!'. When I got back home, his clothes are still in the dryer. I'm peed off! Aibu? Because if I will ask again about it when he gets back from work, he will kick off. Should I bring the subject up again or drop it?

I don't have family. My parents passed on. The HA did not do nothing. They told to go to the council for homelessness and the council said they can't rehouse me because I have matrimonial rights and a place to stay. My exh did not even come back at night time to sleep in the bed and I slept on the sofa. He never sleep in the bed at night as he's always out. Who have got the power to evict him?

I would just dump them on his bes

Sorry, bed

Pho I'd give Women's Aid and/or Shelter a call, I know you said they didn't help you before but this is domestic abuse and they should be able to help you and your son. I found the national Women's Aid line a bit useless but called the Local Helpline and they were brilliant so that might be a good place to start.

How old is your DS?? Please speak to WA urgently

My ds is 5. Spoken to WA on Monday. Am just waiting now. On monday night , my exh came for 5 mins and left. The police knocked on the door yesterday night to say he was involved in a bike accident but nothing serious. Have not seen him since monday night.