I need a rant!!

[siobhann86]

Im lying in bed wide awake feeling so angry and annoyed with my not so dp. In our bedroom we have a window the faces a busy street. We live in a bungalow so our bedroom window is in full view of people walking by. Anyway, we have a roller blind but also my dp bought some special 2 way mirror film for the window so we can see out but no one can see in. Although i know this when i got out the shower i shut the roller blind to get dressed, as it's still a open window and i dont feel comfortable being naked in front of it. Psychology, i feel i can see out so you can see in. Even though you cant. Anyway my dp really kicked off about me shutting the blind, and i mean really went mad i havnt spoke to him all day but i just find it really stupid that it bothered him i felt more comfortable with the blind being closed. God i really hate him sometimes. He gets annoyed over things that normal people wouldnt even bat an eye lid at. Im so layed back and he's so uptight! Rant over! Hopefully i can sleep now thats off my chest.

Is he like this daily? Over little things? Sounds like a controlling arsehole to me.

To add...it's not up to HIM to manage the window dressings. People living in one space can choose to do as they please. It doesn't negatively affect him at all.

So he's an arsehole.

He can't boss you about in your own home. What other things does he lose his shit over?

What? I don’t even understand what he was actually angry at? You pulling the blind? Or your lack of comfort?

"controlling" in the first reply. Shame there was no mention of 'red flags'.

He does get wound up really easily over such small things on a daily basis. Such as if i dont take an interest in his interest he gets really annoyed with me Normally it just goes over my head and a laugh at his patheticness. But this i dont see why it's bothered him so much?! Even though I've chose to ignore him he's acting like im in the wrong. I went to pick my son up from school today and when we got home he had cooked for himself but no one else, i get not putting anything on for me but for our children?! So i went and got just me and my 2 sons a takeaway and he seemed miffed id got none for him And tonight he stormed off in the spare bedroom to sleep, Which is great for me as dont want him sleeping next to me when i feel this rage towards him. Even though i know he gets wound up over the smallest things i am so baffled as to why the whole shutting the blind has bothered him and why he's acting like im in the wrong. I already cant wait for him to wake up so i can tell him what a pathetic #?** he is.