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To ask you what do you think I should do about my work colleague?

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DarkRosaleen · 19/03/2018 21:36

I work in a team of three.
One of the team, ‘Janet’ is getting married next year. She seems to spend all day on t’internet looking at wedding related web sites.
Her role is pivotal and if she fails then our whole project goes tits up and us other two lose our roles. (We may get transferred to another team but possibly not on the same hours or pay. )
We are so far behind targets I am getting seriously worried. We are almost at the end of the first quarter and Janet hasn’t even come close to where she should be. She should get 10 ‘items’ per month and she hasn’t got one. Not one this quarter. She should have almost 30.
She keeps going to meetings but we suspect they are phantom meetings. Today she had a meeting scheduled for 10 am and was supposed to go there first but came into the office to say the meeting was rescheduled for 12. At about 3 she emailed to say the meeting was cancelled last week because of the snow. (This meeting was in the same town where her fiancé works.) And there is hardly any snow!
So the meeting was delayed this morning but postponed last week? This sounds like a load of bull.
We are managed by someone from a different department but pretty much left to ourselves to get on with it. We think Janet is either going for job interviews or just sloping off.
Should I report our concerns? How should I word it?
I just hate being put in this position of being a tattle tale but the alternative could be that our project fails and we all lose our jobs. I’m so stressed, I am not sleeping; my other colleague is getting very concerned and he is trying to see can he do any of her work to get things moving.
We keep making suggestions but she just gives reasons why they won’t work and changes the subject to weddings.
Sorry this is so long, but I think just writing it all down has helped me clarify what I need to do. I have to speak to management, don’t I?

OP posts:
Greyponcho · 22/03/2018 16:16

Yay! Hope it’s some weight off your mind

WatchoutDSisdriving · 22/03/2018 16:34

Glad it went well and he was already aware. Hope all gets better for you soon.

Hypermice · 22/03/2018 16:40

I once worked in a team of three and one of the others spent all day on fb and shoe shopping. Leaving me to pick up almost a thousand emails a day.

I just took the boss aside, no accusations or anything like that, just ‘we are not managing to get through x a day. As you can see bob and myself have processed x amount of this so we feel we are delivering, but delivery is still at risk because overall only x has been achieved. Please can you look at workload ?’

Boss managed to track what we were doing and our Janet got a slap on the wrists. She was still always a lazy fucker mind.

Bramble71 · 22/03/2018 17:04

Glad to hear the meeting went well, OP. You don't need someone like that dragging you down.

LoveProsecco · 22/03/2018 17:24

Well done OP.

HiggeldyPigsinblankets · 22/03/2018 17:36

glad your meeting went well, hope things get sorted out now

Tawdrylocalbrouhaha · 22/03/2018 17:44

Well done OP. It's a pity you went through all that stress, but I guess your manager couldn't say anything to you before without being unprofessional.

Have a nice evening secure in the knowledge your job is safe!

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