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To think I will be able to find someone better?

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FlyLittleFly · 18/03/2018 12:10

Went on a few dates with someone recently and really, really liked him. He’s very tall, big personality, very sociable, successful, grown-up. The list goes on. Everything I was looking for really. We had lots in common, similar sense of humour and really got on well - fancied him too and I know he felt the same. Things have since gone cold though but I keep torturing myself by remembering all the good things that happened and how much fun we had. I feel like I won’t meet someone I like as much for a really long time!

OP posts:
FlyLittleFly · 18/03/2018 12:36

Title should say- to think I will NEVER... :(

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PrettyLittIeThing · 18/03/2018 12:37

Why did they go cold?

FlyLittleFly · 18/03/2018 12:40

I don’t know! It was early days but quite intense. He never said. I know he was three months out of a very long term relationship and it was pretty clear I was looking for something serious.

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FlyLittleFly · 18/03/2018 12:40

By which I mean we may have been at different stages.

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NotTheFordType · 18/03/2018 12:40

Your first three points would be minus points for me! Don't fall into the trap of regretting your "lost opportunity" so badly that you end up overlooking other men who are equally attractive.

FlyLittleFly · 18/03/2018 12:41

Why would they be minus points? He’s 30 and seemed to be ready to settle down a bit. I’m still hurting

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NotTheFordType · 18/03/2018 14:24

I hate craning my neck to look up at tall people, I'm an unsociable cow, and I don't like "big personalities". That's why Grin

I'm sorry you're hurting OP Flowers It's only natural to feel sad. You will find someone you like just as much, give it time.

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