DH and I agreed last week to postpone Mother's Day because he said the kids weren't organised. Honestly this isn't a problem because they've been working hard in school/uni and we see that as the most important.
Anyway on Mother's Day it turns out he hadn't organised a card or present for his mother because he'd forgotten, and hoped I might have thought of it
. He didn't appreciate me telling him that she wasn't my mother so it wasn't my problem. (It was the way I said it to him, not the sentiment).
I found out from DS this morning that my children had been organised. They had all sorted cards and presents and has been disappointed their plans had been cancelled. I know I should have spoken to DC first but assumed that DH had, and I didn't want to make anyone feel guilty.
So since I can't get it through to DH that(we seem to have this conversation every year)
A) I'm not his mother,
B) he doesn't need to get involved in MY Mother's Day,
C) he should concentrate on his own mother
AIBU to LTB?