AIBU to be annoyed?
Name changed because I know a few use this site!
There's a weekly group for those who're feeding their DC to pop along to for coffee/general chit chat.
There is a group leader, but after the initial 20 minute everyone just goes into their own little groups.
At the beginning, everyone introduces themselves and surprisingly, everyone states their ages. As well as how long they've been feeding and number of DC they have.
All fine, no issues doing that. I stated my age. I was then immediately met with "Ohhh, that's young. Did you know you're less likely to breastfeed if you're young? I'll find some articles for you". I smiled and nodded. Said it was a very pleasant experience, for both myself and DS.
I do know the statistics and have read a few articles on the matter. All fine, but I think this leader should've done well to remember I'm not a statistic.
Next question from group leader was "Did your Mum or anyone influence your decision? Maybe your boyfriend, does he find it okay?"
No, I said. My mum didn't breastfeed herself. My husband is great, supportive too.
She then smiled and the group moved on.
I've made friends with two lovely ladies but I've decided the group itself wasn't for me, purely because I felt this leader very patronising. Thankfully some good came out of it though, at the very least.
AIBU to say she is indeed a bit much? She also said to a woman who felt emotional about something "You got this, mumma bear!" - No, she isn't American.
I wouldn't dream of pointing out someone's age category, never mind making comments relating to their age.