I want to visit DM but just seem unable to find the courage to speak to DP about it. DM lives a few hundred miles away and so if I visit, I like to go for a week. However we always argue whenever I suggest I want to go and visit her and so I have become anxious raising the subject now. It has been a month now I have been trying to ask about visiting DM but I just can't find the courage to discuss it with DP. AIBU to visit DM? I don't think so!