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What's pisses you off lately?

38 replies

Twocatsonebaby · 09/03/2018 21:16

Let's have a rant and talk it out.
Mine was yesterday. I was on a bus and had to fit my dd in her pushchair in a tiny gap. An me an dp were crushed next to it.
I'm 37 weeks pregnant with sciatica and rheumatoid arthritis and a man got off two stops down (he looked like he needed the seat to be honest) and offered me the seat immediately and asks when my due date is. Such a lovely man. So as he gets off, I go to squeeze out of this gap to sit in his seat and an old lady rushes from the seat 3 rows behind to this seat I'm about to sit on. An then ushers her friend to join her! My dd is having problems away from me at the moment so I wanted to sit near her and also so I could feed her her bottle leaning across as dp couldn't do it Stood up cause he's so tall.
I was disgusted. An I'm hormonal so the rage is real.

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DaviesMum · 10/03/2018 00:18

Too many things to cunting well count. I hate the bastarding well lot, I'm in a constant ragey, foul-mouthed mood from the moment I wake lately. All it takes is one wrong look and I go ballistic, beyond pissed off periods crabbit.

victoriaspongecake · 10/03/2018 00:23

people that write 'an' instead of and......is it really so difficult to add a d?

foodiefil · 10/03/2018 00:24

Oh I'm so sorry @Twocatsonebaby it must have felt shit. You have my major sympathy as recently I have been on the receiving end of someone's unwarranted aggression because of their own stupidity. Hope you've been able to relax now. Rest easy with the thought that you weren't the arsehole - take care for the rest of your pregnancy lovely x

Flapjackninja · 10/03/2018 00:29

People not replying directly to me. Sent numerous work email out today asking for quotes the recepients replied to my colleague not me, didn't even copy me in!

In a strop I replied saying "is this for me, since I was the sender and it was me who requested the quote?

Embarrassed now and wish I hadn't sent it!

foodiefil · 10/03/2018 00:31

Oh and to add to the point of the thread:

  • my Work. I'm being paid the same as someone with several years less experience than me and have been for a long time and I'm skint, topping life up with credit cards and it's pissing me off, I shouldn't have to do this considering the level I'm working at and the industry.

  • I was on the receiving end of a hissy fit the other day because I looked at her in a way I shouldn't have. Apparently! This was a load of rubbish, I looked at her thinking we had both overheard someone say something and then she went ballistic. I know it was all her but I was so hurt by her behaviour towards me. I genuinely did nothing wrong and then was told 'FUCK OFF' etc. Wanted to get the cctv up to prove my innocent because I had done so little and it was bothering me so much, have learned a little bit about letting go.

  • hormones. I'm really struggling with my hormones, every month for around two weeks I'm raging with anger tears paranoia. Driving me mad. Anyone else ?!

Love and strength to anyone who needs it tonight. Life can be hard ❤️

foodiefil · 10/03/2018 00:32

Do not be embarrassed @Flapjackninja you have shown strength - hopefully they won't go over you next time. Women shouldn't apologise for strength

Custardo · 10/03/2018 00:33

mine are mostly traffic related

  1. when its a 40 zone dont drive at 30 you atter utter cunts
  2. lorries should be BANNED from overtaking on a hill and on a motorway beween 7 - 9 and 4 - 6pm
  3. a mini roundabout is like EVER OTHER FUCkING ROUNDABOUT you clueless fucks,
  4. each lane on a motorway isn't for the speed you are going, get in the left lane you inconsiderate wankbastards
  5. if you want to drive slowly and are 75 years old why have you got a 2lt ? get a fucking corsa - or better get a bus
  6. if you are not commuting you should be executed for being on the road - a caveat if you are dropping kids off at school THEN off to work - fine. if you are a SAHM within 1 mile of school and you use a car you should also be executed
  7. you dont hae to slow to a fucking stop to go round a corner
  8. say thank you if i let you through
  9. if you let more than one person through you are a cunt
  10. if a sign says that one lane is closed ahead - and cars queue up on the inside lane - then cars go past on the outside lane - they are not let in as the 'inside;' lane drivers thnk they are pushing in. NO NO NO you are spposed to ZIP thereby enhancing the flow of traffic - you are supposed to merge in turn. let them in
foodiefil · 10/03/2018 01:01

Agree with everything you say @Custardo arrogant drivers cause accidents

Cyberllama · 10/03/2018 01:51

@Custardo The other week, an utter cockwomble was spreading himself across both lanes, trying to block people going up to merge in. Fucking prick. We were actually turning left before the lane closed anyway. Unlucky for him, there was a bus stop when we'd just come up behind him so the other half nipped around him in there. The other driver was having a proper little rage as we passed so I stuck my fingers up at him :D

clownfaces · 10/03/2018 02:27

Bloody trans threads. Sorry but they pop up in FWR, Chat, AIBU every bloody topic. Even the most innocuous threads result in a trans debate.
OP I am so sorry to hear about your experience with a little one and being pregnant and travelling on the bus. Thanks
and breathe

The80sweregreat · 10/03/2018 09:14

the man who were behind me in the traffic yet moaned because i stopped on an amber light at a big roundabout when i knew that had i carried on him and i would have got stuck and blocked the ones to the right going anywhere. he was going mad behind me - er, i was being a bit cautious - held him up for a minute of his sad little life. have some patience and to not block up the roundabout. he got caught at the next lot as it was anyway, i was going round to the right, he was still giving me evils.

yerbutnobut · 10/03/2018 09:56

Shitty drivers piss me off on a general day to day basis! Yesterday though whilst travelling to my local town I was going along a very long straight 30 road, I see a car wanting to pull out of junction to my left up ahead, there's plenty of time/space for them to pull out but no, they wait at the last possible second and pull out right in front of me so I have to hit the brake hard, they pull out really slowly too so in no hurry to get away from my approaching car! then without indicating they stop to engage with a lady that was stood on corner of junction they had pulled out of and a van nearly went straight up the back of me, grrrr!

cucaracha · 10/03/2018 10:09

Idiotics drivers who should leave earlier instead of having manic tantrums on the road. Speed limits are a limit, not a target.

There's a 40 mph road around here, where most local slow down before reaching a blind bend. In yet another accident, another 2 people have been killed last weekend. There's a reason why people slow down on that corner

I live in an area with several primary schools. It might be 30, but people do slow down because they are used to kids (or parents!) jumping out between 2 parked cars. The moron raging and beeping behind them because he's wasting 5 seconds is not going to make anyone go faster - I slow down.

Some twat started abusing an old man the other day, because the twat arrived far too fast for a residential road, and was delayed by a car who just turned onto the main road. The slower driver could not have seen it in that bend, and the twat wouldn't have had to slow down if he had driven at the right speed. When the old guy pulled over to let him go through! he got a torrent of abuse.I was so tempted to throw something at him, and I am not known for being a slow driver, but god! How stupid do you have to be

Running late and being hysterical is a not an excuse for being a moron on the roads. Take the bus and start meditation.

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