So Sunday, myself, my dd (who's 11 months) and my dp were invited to a family meal on my dad's side.
So I don't get on with them very well. Mainly because they've out casted me my whole life cause I'm not into their boozy football culture. There's been unequal treatment as well between me and my brother (brother died in 2015) but they always gave him cards and money for birthdays etc. Nothing for me. An Infront of me. Which is fine. I have my mom's side who are wonderful. But you don't do that to a child. So they're awful people just for how they treated my mom. My dad is always in the right. My brother hung himself when he was 11, (i found him in time) an my mom was in the wrong for staying in a camped with him every night and my dad buggared off to ibiza the next day. My mom got so much stick for no reason. My grandparents took me in as my dad's girlfriend at the time refused to have me. She abused us and he let it happen. But you know, he's still a 'great dad' yeah.. Right.
So I really thought after db died, things were patched up and I've still made the effort to see them etc. I've tried. I got nothing out of it.
So surprise, I'm pregnant. Heavily pregnant and I found out late. An Sunday all they did was say how fat I was. Bear it in mind, they know I'm pregnant. They ignored me, dp and our dd all day unless they wanted to use dd as a photo prop. Else wise they didn't bother apart from one.
My cousins child is 7. An she bullied our dd and it hasn't been the first time, all be it dd doesn't realise thankfully. We bought toys for dd and she snatched them from her repeatedly and ripped them out her hands and mouth at one point. Referred to her as "it". Wanted her on her lap to drop her. (dp was quick to get her) all because she wasn't the center of attention. At Christmas dd had some presents and this kid took them from her as she was playing making dd cry. I had to do something so I took the toys off her and gave them back to dd.
So Facebook, they too photos of Sunday and cropped me out. My mom even commented about my disappearance. They like my dp so he was in them. An all the photos of my dd were up. Without permission to be used as a prop.
Then there's a comment. " was so good with her dd today" and underneath my cousin said "apart from when she kept calling her it." and then the previous commenter said "no she was wonderful with her. Future babysitter"
So I saw this today. An I'm fucking furious. I planned to cut them out anyway. But this has really pissed me off the fact they allowed her to act like this towards my dd and act all happy families. Not to mention the comments to me about being heavily pregnant.
Then my dad messaged me on the night telling me I'm unreasonable for not taking dd around to see them more!
Am I right to be pissed?