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Did he deserve my ire?

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Jamiefraserskilt · 05/03/2018 00:31

So DH has been away and came back to a tidy house which he then trashed by leaving stuff everywhere. Bags, coat, shoes, paperwork, general detritus. Three days I was asking for him to sort his stuff out, empty his bag and put it away.
Today, he finally took it upstairs and left it on the bedroom floor (still not emptied). Tonight he went to bed and whacked his toe on it, breaking open the skin. He stomped downstairs yelling at me for moving it into his path (obviously telepathically through the lounge ceiling). Am I being an evil uncaring beast of a wife to think he bloody deserved it for being a lazy bastard?

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PhelanThePain · 05/03/2018 00:35

Shock he actually thinks you deliberately moved a bag on the floor for him to trip over? Does he not remember leaving it there?

AHedgehogCanNeverBeBuggered · 05/03/2018 00:37

YANBU! What a massive eejit.

TheButterflyOfTheStorms · 05/03/2018 00:40

He's a blamer. There has to be someone to blame for everything who is definitely not him.

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Jamiefraserskilt · 05/03/2018 00:40

Loving the moniker, Feelin!
I was upstairs earlier sorting the clean washing, nearly tripped over it myself but decided to leave it exactly where it was dropped. He has a habit of doing this and I decided i am not his mother, maid, waitress or personal health and safety monitor!

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PhelanThePain · 05/03/2018 00:42

HA! My name is very appropriate for this thread! Grin

He’s a tit. My DS walks in and leaves a trail behind him. It boils my piss. My younger DS automatically puts away as he goes. I don’t know why they’re different. I raised them both the same!

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Jamiefraserskilt · 05/03/2018 00:52

Oh definitely, Butterfly. When his pile collapses into the cooker and gets splattered with food, it is my fault. If I clear or move the pile and He can't find his widget, it is my fault. When he spilled coffee on his will, it was my fault for giving him it to read when he was drinking coffee..... He used it as a mat! I married a blamer....argh!

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Riverside2 · 05/03/2018 01:05

he left it on the floor and shouts at you?

I don't know why anyone puts up with this shit.

TheButterflyOfTheStorms · 05/03/2018 02:13

Show him the video. In a funny way. Then every time he does it shout, "damn you Steve" at him. Works in our house.

thebewilderness · 05/03/2018 02:42

My ex once accused me of maliciously not moving something intentionally to interfere with him. I considered it a red flag and I was right.

thebewilderness · 05/03/2018 02:44

Same ex that blamed me for putting my foot under his to get stepped on.

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