This is a bit of a long one
Up until Jan i was on maternity but now I work 2 days a week 8-5. I don’t drive so on those days I’m out the house 6:30-6:30 as I have to drop and pick my older son off at child minder. When I was on maternity I did everything cooking cleaning etc as my partner works 5 days a week.
Since I’ve gone back to work it feels like I’m just doing everything. My OH rarely helps around the house if he does it’s minimal. He comes home from work and basically asks me what I’ve done all day!
I do a lot and he just doesn’t see it.
In Aug he goes away for a long weekend every year with his mates and they were having a discussion about taking another weekend at some point in the year too.
All I said was it’d be nice if I could have time off and he flipped out at me basically saying I always stop him doing things and that I get 5 days a week off when I’m not working!
I mean what do OH really thing we do on our days off?
I have my son I get up and take him and get him from school, the rest of the day is spent juggling looking after our 8 month old and doing housework or anything that needs doing. When he’s I’ll hell spend all day in bed then get up to play PS4 with his mates. When I’m ill I have to carry on. AIBU I’m feeling like this? I don’t get weekends off which would be nice or even just some help around the house!
Sorry for the rant just feeling very frustrated atm