My DH has just stomped off in a strop because I told him he was lazy and selfish.
I am 12 weeks pregnant with our second baby. We had an almost 2 year old toddler and I'm a SAHM. He works full time Mon-Fri.
We take it in turns to have a lie in at he weekends. Today was his day so he laid in until 9am while I was up at 6 with DD. We had a day at home today, and as we've not been able to get out due to the weather she's been pretty full on! I've been rushed off my feet all day except for an hour when I had a doze on the sofa (I don't get much in the way of early pregnancy symptoms except for I'm really really tired) when DD was napping. I've also done all 3 meals for all of us today and all the usual daily cleaning/tidying. He's played with DD, and spent an hour and a half watching football earlier on. He did stop for ten minutes to brush her teeth before bed.
We've just been sat on the sofa watching telly when he got up to get himself some chocolate from the kitchen. I asked him to make me a cup of tea while he was up and you should have heard the huffing and puffing and 'for fucks sake' -ing being muttered. He brought it in and I said 'Thanks, but I'm so sorry it was such an effort, I'll do it myself next time!'
He had a bit of a grumble and said I was cheeky for asking him to make me a cup of tea! AIBU, really? I did snap and say it wouldn't bloody hurt him to offer as he knows how wiped out I am especially by the end of the day and that he was being a bit lazy and selfish. He's huffed off upstairs.