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Met a new guy I like but don’t want to rush sex

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HelloFresh1 · 02/03/2018 21:51

We met last Saturday and had our first date yesterday - he’s calling it the second though! We had a lovely time and he kept making references towards the future. Had a kiss and cuddle outside while waiting for taxis, and he left me with his scarf! Immediately firmed up a third date (dinner) but he wants me to come to him, across London... I feel like he’s moving a bit too fast? I don’t want to sleep with him for as long as possible really; would rather take it slow and get to know him! How do I play this?

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HelloFresh1 · 03/03/2018 15:22

Thanks! We will see... I’m going to go and see him (40 mind each way!) but then go back to mine after

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HelloFresh1 · 03/03/2018 15:22

Mins each way

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wakemeupbefore · 03/03/2018 15:55

If he can't wait until you are ready, LTF.

smashyourglasses · 03/03/2018 16:00

He should be travelling to meet you. But i'm old school.

x2boys · 03/03/2018 16:04

If you don't want to have sex yet just tell him take as long as you need ? Having said that I had sex with dh on the same night I met him and thirteen years later we are still together do what ever makes you comfortable?

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