Let me just start by saying I’m trying really hard not to be judgemental and trying to understand as best as I can however I am struggling big time.
A supposed friend of mine has a daughter the same as mine they have become quite close in the last year. This friend has overstepped many boundaries over the last year between coming on to my OH and saying in front of my daughter that my OH is like her child’s father. To lying about suicide attempts (we are friends with other members of the family who know for a fact the story we have been told is completely made up).
My friend has now gotten a boyfriend which I think is great however she is nothing but drama for the poor guy. Constantly questioning everything he does and over analyzing everything. She then comes to me to “vent” (this is everyday by the way) I have a lot of patience with people but I’m at the end of my tether with her drama and lies.
I know for a fact that if I tell her I know she’s lying and creating the drama that she will whip her child out of my child’s life. As they have become like sisters I need advice on how to either deal with the drama or a way to get out of listening without hurting her feelings. Or am I just being a judgemental b**ch?