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I can't buy a house

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milliemops · 27/02/2018 06:26

So been in rented accommodation for many years due to exh huge debts spending money in takeaways and clothes (so not anything to actually show for it!) Three years ago finally filed for divorce and started to clear the debts, luckily most were in his name but cleared joint ones. Within 12 months I was debt free.

Two years ago, a lovely big semi came up for sale in my area. It need work as hadn't been decorated in years but was £150,000. Went to see a mortgage advisor who said I could get a mortgage for £135,000 based on my salary. So I spent the last 2 years scrimping a £20k deposit together and making sure my credit rating had recovered from previous debt....

Now in a position to buy, got my deposit and MIP and similar houses in my area are now selling for around £190,000. Even terrace houses with no garden are up for £170.000

I really don't want to move areas, I work and my children are in school within a couple of miles and my friends and their friends are all here. I'm just annoyed that I've saved a deposit and I now feel I will never be able to buy where i live as house prices are going up quicker than I can save more deposit.

I don't think there is a solution unless I move away from the area I'm in which will mean moving my children's schools or a 40 minute drive to school each day (currently a 5 minute walk).

Just interested to hear from anyone who has been in this position and what you did.

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OverTheHedgeHammy · 13/05/2018 20:15

Oh that's wonderful. Thank you for the update!

NameChanger22 · 13/05/2018 20:16

Put in very cheeky offers on lots of properties, one might accept.

LaurieMarlow · 13/05/2018 20:16

Great news op, well done

NameChanger22 · 13/05/2018 20:16

Sorry,, I only read the first page. Congratulations.

BlueSuffragette · 13/05/2018 20:19

Many congratulations Wine. Well done, hope you have many happy years in your new home. FlowersSmile

WalkingOnAFlashlightBeam · 13/05/2018 20:21

I feel a riot coming up sooner or later.

I doubt it. Because home ownership is now so very far out of the teals of possibility for so so many people, that it just doesn't really enter someone's mind that they might ever have been able to buy in the first place. People won't riot over something they never even considered they'd have a chance of obtaining anyway.

Well bloody done OP!

Bellabutterfly2016 · 13/05/2018 20:22

I was in a similar position before I met my partner
I couldn't afford a house that I really wanted so in the area I wanted so I bought a smaller one I rented out and carried on renting myself then I met my partner and he sold his, I sold mine and we had a big enough deposit between us but it's still a high mortgage but a nice house in a nice area

UnimaginativeUsername · 13/05/2018 20:24

That’s wonderful OP. Grin

Strictly1 · 13/05/2018 20:25

Fabulous news 👏

JustHereForThePooStories · 13/05/2018 20:26

How brilliant are you?! Well done!!! Flowers

jeanne16 · 13/05/2018 20:43

Look at the other Help to Buy scheme where you get 40% of the purchase price as an interest free loan for 5 years.

ZoSanDesu · 13/05/2018 20:44

Lovely update! Well done!!!

Doilooklikeatourist · 13/05/2018 20:47

Excellent update
Well done you 💐💐💐🍾

mando12345 · 13/05/2018 20:47

Missed this the first time around but I'm really pleased for you OP, bloody well done!

HappyHedgehog247 · 13/05/2018 20:49

Amazing!!! Congratulations and inspiring saving by the way! Enjoy your very well deserved new home x

boilerhouse2007 · 13/05/2018 20:51

''We moved areas (left london completely) to escape the rent trap. Best thing we did. No help but there are loads of people stuck like we were and you are. The only solution we found was to leave and move to a cheaper area.''

this, sad but true. I also rent in london and see people in their 40s still renting and completing resenting it so I plan to leave here in the forseeable future as I do not want to end in that trap. Other friends I know too had to move them and their families well out of london even though they wanted to stay as they simply could not afford to buy there.

hidinginthenightgarden · 13/05/2018 20:52

Well done OP. That is really impressive.

Fluffycloudland77 · 13/05/2018 20:53

I’m really pleased for you, you’ve worked really hard for that.

I can reccomend wilko paints. Half my house is farrow and ball, half is wilko.

NoSquirrels · 13/05/2018 20:58

Brilliant Flowers

lizzie1970a · 13/05/2018 20:58

Well done you! That's amazing news. You deserve a big pat on the back from yourself for that. Is ex giving you the right amount of maintenance?

FASH84 · 13/05/2018 20:59

Amazing news OP you're an absolute inspiration to your DC , hope you'll be very happy in your new home

GlitterGlue · 13/05/2018 21:14

What a fab end to the thread. I hope you’ll be very happy in your new home.

WhatsGoingOnEh · 13/05/2018 23:23

You are an INSPIRATION and I'm delighted that this has all worked out so brilliantly! Massive hugs to you and your DC. Enjoy your new home!!!!!!!!

MyOtherProfile · 13/05/2018 23:31

Brilliant. Well done.

Knitjob · 13/05/2018 23:35

Wow that is amazing. I hope you and your family are really happy there. Congratulations!

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