So I had dd last April. I lost a lot of weight in my pregnancy and ended up so saggy on my belly. Slowly it went back to normal. I was back in my size 12 jeans 3 days after birth luckily. So ds is due next month and I've done a lot of stretching and a lot of weight has been put on. I kept having growth scans with dd as I wouldn't eat and the hospital was concerned with her. She was too small. So I've made sure to try and keep eating this time. Normally I'll add.
But ds is huge in my belly. The midwife said he was huge too. But he's been moving up and down and right now he's far up in my belly (35w) and my belly is just hanging down like an apron and I hate it.
I'm going to make a conscious effort to get a lot fitter and healthier so I can run about with my dcs when they can play etc. But I'm worried I'll have this flabby belly forever. It's genuinely like an apron :(