I’ve recently split from my ex. I walked downstairs one night and caught him video chatting with a woman (naked woman). It turns out while I’d been seeing to our dd, who has autism so requires some care in the night, he’s been rekindling an online romance with a woman who loves not far from here (and who he has slept with).
It was a complete shock. I was one of those slightly smug ‘oh no, my dh would never do that to me’ types and my whole world crashed down.
Since then, even as early as one night after he left, I’ve received messages from four different ‘friends’, all male, all married. One is his friend and the other three are my friends husbands/partners.
Now I’m under no illusions that I’ve morphed into some kind of sex kitten. I’m an overweight, knackered shell of my younger self.
But these bastards have messaged me some pretty awful things.
One just flat out asked to see a picture of my cleavage and kept going on about ‘my amazing’ tits. I blocked him instantly after telling him if he ever dared say anything like that again to me I’d tell my friend.
One tried to start a ‘secret chat’ on fb messenger with me (I don’t really understand it but it came up as ‘secret’ and the writing was in black)
I do/did actually consider this guy a good friend so joked and asked why and were we plotting some kind of coup. He then proceeded to ask me if I needed any ‘company’ and started to talk about how much he wanted to see me.
They are now all blocked but I’m staying away from Facebook anyway now. I fee completely shit on by these men I trusted in my life.
Betrayed by my dh and then my ‘friends’ swooping in like vultures apparently assuming I’ve lost all self confidence and am easy pickings.
I mean honestly, who has ever actually replied to ‘show me your breats’ with ‘oh yeah, sure’
Sorry, needed to vent after waking up to messages from a different account from them apologising.