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'adore'

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starlightafar · 24/02/2018 21:15

Why is it that every other thread on here uses the word 'adore' when referring to liking something a lot?
He 'adores' her
I 'adore' ketchup
DD 'adores' peppa pig
FGS. When in real life to people use the word adore in a sentence? Like on the soaps, nobody uses it. Even Eileen, poor deluded dear, doesn't ever say she adores Pat Phelan. At work, I have never heard anyone say it, nor my kids peers, nor my friends.
Is it a MN thing? I can't think of a more unnatural sounding word to use in conversation, and it seems odd to read it so often!

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Foxsox · 24/02/2018 22:03

I use it frequently, so do my friends.
Gasp, we also like to 'French it up' sometimes and say
"J'adore"

We are middle class and fancy though! Wink

YABU

starlightafar · 24/02/2018 22:07

Oh no. Fake foreign ness.
Different world.
No excuse for using adore in English.
It is up there with slug painted eyebrows.

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Tistheseason17 · 24/02/2018 22:10

@starlightafar
I'm with you on slug eyebrows- especially when several shades off!

lecossaise · 24/02/2018 22:13

I definitely use it in speech, it means something different from live or really like... I wouldn't say those have the connotations of both loving and worshipping someone/thing that 'adore' has.

GrannyGrissle · 24/02/2018 22:24

But isn't MN a safe space where we can adore to our hearts content? I prefer a good swear on here myself keeps my language clean for DD Grin

starlightafar · 24/02/2018 22:28

See I don't worship anyone. Many people worship God but don't adore him. But the bible says that God adores us. So it must mean a very powerful kind of love.
Who would you put in conversation with it?
I just think it sounds weird.
Can't see why Eileen isn't using it having confirmed that tbh.
Tis they're everywhere. Horrible.

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starlightafar · 24/02/2018 22:29

Granny. I hate you.
Prefer words like cunt myself Grin

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BrazzleDazzleDay · 24/02/2018 22:32

My dh says he adores me, it does make me feel a bit bleugh. Mind you hes a fifty billion times a day "i love you" kinda man.

Slug eyebrows... well...

Foxsox · 24/02/2018 22:34

Slug eyebrows !!!
They are a whole different game & not one I want to play!
Yuck

starlightafar · 24/02/2018 22:34

Just out of interest then, when people say adore, do they do so in a serious or pisstaking way?

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BrazzleDazzleDay · 24/02/2018 22:34

@starlightafar I love the word cunt Grin my dm hates the words cunt and pish, so of course I bloody love them!

lecossaise · 24/02/2018 22:36

I don't mean a serious kind of worship necessarily. Like a conversation with a friend might go:
Her "ugh I can't stand David Mitchell."
Me "oh my god I ADORE him."

SmurfOrTerf · 24/02/2018 23:05

I hate Urg
I've never noticed it on MN before, and today its on like eleventy billion threads

waiting for someone to turn up and say they hate eleventy billion

Idontdowindows · 25/02/2018 08:59

Just out of interest then, when people say adore, do they do so in a serious or pisstaking way?

When talking about my husband it's serious, yes. I do adore him.

When talking about baby feetses... well, you have to admit, they can be quite adorable.

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 25/02/2018 09:03

Never realised it until now but I say it a lot.

Meandmy4 · 25/02/2018 09:09

Well i was going to join in but ......
I will just pick up my totes adorable asda bag, take me and my adorbs eye slugs (x 7 shades lighter obvs ) and fuck off to have a nose up at another cunty thread then

Grin I cant help it today !
starlightafar · 26/02/2018 19:00

Nothing from asda is adorable. Just saying.

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starlightafar · 26/02/2018 19:01

Actually Idont, babies feet are indeed adorable.
Wouldn't catch me referring to another adult as adorable though. Noone can match babies feet.

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Gladisgood · 26/02/2018 19:13

I loathe slug eyebrows. Though when they are absolutely massive and really obviously the wrong colour they are morbidly fascinating. I struggle to look away. Often they seem to be combined with a shade of foundation that can only be described as "oompa loompa"

I do adore DD, but don't remember ever saying this out loud. Maybe I should start?

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