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to wear a dress and heels for a date in my home?

36 replies

Sullabylullaby · 24/02/2018 17:54

It will be the fifth date, he's coming here to cook dinner and whatever else.......

Would you dress down or wear a nice dress and heels?

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iamyourequal · 24/02/2018 19:54

I was all for the red dress and getting on the high heels when I thought your date was a Saturday night. Now it’s a Sunday I’m not so sure. The dress is lovely, if you are wearing it I would suggest bare legs (assuming your legs are not blue and dumpy like mine...), nice nail polish and smart sandals and understated hair, makeup and jewellery. If we knew what he was cooking you it would be easier to give an opinion!

DuckAndPancakes · 24/02/2018 19:57

Wear slipper boots.

Bollocks to heels.

(It’s really cold.... slippers can be sexy? He won’t be looking at your feet? He may appreciate the smart casual mix up? I have no idea but I’d want to be wearing slipper boots?)

happymummy12345 · 24/02/2018 20:01

Do it.
This Valentine's we couldn't go out, so we had a meal in once ds was in bed. We made it all nice with properly set table, candles and so on, and I wore a dress and heels. I wanted to make the effort even though we couldn't go out.

demirose87 · 24/02/2018 20:04

I wouldn't. It looks try hard. If you want to wow him, nice jeans and sexy top with sexy underwear underneath ...if he's lucky.

Treaclepie19 · 24/02/2018 20:04

Gorgeous dress :)
Wear the heels. Bare legs definitely.
Have fun!

Samewitches · 24/02/2018 20:43

The queen is always photographed in her own house with dress, heels AND handbag. Why does she need a handbag in her own house? Anyway, if it's good enough for the queen I'd go for it!

kubex · 24/02/2018 21:18

I would go for the dress, bare legs, no heels but painted toes with relaxed hair and makeup up.

Sexy without looking too 'try hard'.

Sullabylullaby · 25/02/2018 09:07

Well, as luck would have it, he has been ill apparently vomiting with a bug. So, the dress shall have to remain where it is for now!

To the poster who asked, he was supposed to have been cooking me steak.

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Sullabylullaby · 25/02/2018 09:08

Demirose - that's what I wore on our last date. :)

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Sullabylullaby · 25/02/2018 09:09

Samewitches - I'm liking your comparison to the queen! Grin

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AjasLipstick · 25/02/2018 09:21

All of this shenanigans! He won't notice what she's got on her feet in that dress! Grin

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