Hand hold please

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Hi,idk if I should post here really I'm just upset rn me and my ex have been split up for 8 month but we started seeing each other again he was telling me he loved me ect and things were good and getting better but suddenly he stopped talking to me and ignoring me we talked about it Saturday he said he loved me but he met someone else today we got into an argument and he's saying vial things to me and I'm just very confused and upset cause of the stuff he was saying Aibu feeling this way since we were just seeing each other?

No YANU to be upset but I wouldn’t give him the satisfaction of letting him know. Busy yourself with healing by making time for friends/activities and keeping busy.

Turn your phone off at night so no temptation. It’s the only way you’ll get over it and maintain your dignity.

I wish I had read that earlier he's calling me a stalker ect cause I found out I am in no way a stalker at all I barley talked to him since our talk Saturday only about our son but he's saying now I'm a psychopath and the girl he met "blows" (sexual reference) so I think he's trying to hurt me with saying things and tbh it worked idk why he feels the need to do this

Poor you :( Its a shame you can't completely block him because you have a child together.

also don't contact him unnecessarily about your son either, you shouldn't need to be getting on to him at all really, do you have an access agreement?

Iv been trying to get him to have ds for 3.5 days a week 50/50 but he refuses so just does Saturday to Sunday I only message if it's to ask when he's collecting and when he will be bringing him home or as I have ds 5 days a week if we go to like the zoo or somewhere decent for the day I'll send him pictures of ds

Stop doing that then, why are you sending him pictures when he's being such a cunt to you and calling you a stalker? let him contact you about seeing his son

I felt he had a right since he's the dad but he doesn't pay maintenance for ds or anything iv been more than reasonable with everything but I think it's time I stop being nice and start sorting myself out we were together 4 years previously so it was hard to be cold ect towards him

Nah, when he takes your son let him get his own pictures and take him to court to sort maintenance

Sorry, but he was just using you for the sex I'm guessing. Now he's found someone else he doesn't need you.
Don't contact him unless it's an absolute need regarding your ds.
Don't send him photos. Why? He can take them on his own days.
Sort out maintenance.
Choose your days and stick to it. He obviously doesn't want 50/50 split.