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AIBU to ask what's the longest relationship you've had and are you still together?

76 replies

louise5754 · 20/02/2018 21:11

Just being nosy.

OP posts:
Quietwhenreading · 20/02/2018 21:58

Married first boyfriend. Together nearly 30 years. Married nearly 20.

Still happy and in love.

Basta · 20/02/2018 22:02

Two years. Not still together. Crap at relationships. Blush

Storminateapot · 20/02/2018 22:22

30 years this year, married 19.

BuggerOffAndGoodDayToYou · 20/02/2018 22:24

31 years together this year! Married over 26 years. Two DCs. Still adore each other (most of the time 😉)

BackBoiler · 20/02/2018 22:26

Together 17yrs been married for 13. Im 33

tillytrotter1 · 20/02/2018 22:30

50 years this year.

MadameJosephine · 20/02/2018 22:31

9 years, not together anymore but happily coparenting DD

Before him I was married for 8 years to DS’s dad

Icequeen01 · 20/02/2018 22:32

41 years - married for 33 years. Been together since we were 15 (DH) and I was 16. God that makes me feel so old!

lougle · 20/02/2018 22:35

I'm 38, I met my DH when I was very young (allegedly, I have no memory, but my DM used to take him to scouts with my DB), but met him knowingly at 15 years 364 days (ahhh, I started working at the same corner shop Grin), started dating at 19, got married at 22, still married.

So 19 years together, 16 years married next month.

Keepingupwiththejonesys · 20/02/2018 22:35

I'd had a couple of those daft teen relationships that last about one to three months and then one that lasted 6 months. Then met my now dh when I was 17 and we've been together almost 10 years, married almost 6 years. Absolute love of my life.

TrickyD · 20/02/2018 22:41

Together 49 years, married for 46 years in June.

SweetheartNeckline · 20/02/2018 22:47

Together 10 years, married for 8. How has that happened?! He was supposed to be a summer fling before I left for uni Confused

TrickyD · 20/02/2018 22:48

Hasty recalculation, married 47 years in June not 46.

LondonLassInTheCountry · 20/02/2018 22:50

10 years but not together now

NerrSnerr · 20/02/2018 22:52

16 years and still together

StrumpersPlunkett · 20/02/2018 22:53

Met 20 years ago this year
Together for 18 years.
Happy together. Although we have had some hard times.

FingersCrossedHard · 20/02/2018 22:53

Nearly 14 years and still together.

elliejjtiny · 20/02/2018 22:55

16 years and yes

Threeminis · 20/02/2018 22:56

14 1/2 years. Still together. Married 3 1/2.
Still together, we've had our ups and downs but he really is my best friend most of the time Grin

doze931 · 20/02/2018 22:57

12 years together. 10th aniversary in June

Maatsuyker · 20/02/2018 22:58

13 years. No. Am very happy with DH and hope to break my previous record.

Bearwithverylittlebrain · 20/02/2018 22:59

5 years. Happily living in sin and long may it continue.

MirandaWest · 20/02/2018 22:59

Longest so far - was with XH for 16.5 years.

Been with DH nearly 6 years.

My mum and dad have been together almost 50 years Smile

FranticallyPeaceful · 20/02/2018 23:00

11 years and nope

Time40 · 20/02/2018 23:27

33 years this year, not married

Same as you, Stoat. We're thinking that maybe we should get married, though, in case something ... you know ... happens. I'd rather do a civil partnership, though - I wish that would be made legal for straight couples.

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