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To leave my job to start my own business

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pinkduckblueduck · 20/02/2018 13:21

I am currently stuck in an admin job that i don't really like. There are opportunities for progression but the better roles don't look that appealing to me either to be honest. I can't imagine staying in this area forever even though I could stay and progress fairly easily to an average wage.

I have a law degree from a good uni and really wanted (still want) to be a lawyer. It seems to be impossible to get a training contract anywhere. Even in a non preferred area of law. I have given up on this dream. I know people (who want to be solicitors) who have been stuck in paralegal type jobs for years and may be stuck forever. They seem so unhappy and I couldn't stay doing that job indefinitely on the slight chance that one day it pays off and results in a training contract.

So lately I have been thinking about starting up a small business of my own. I feel that I have a good idea, could build it up slowly and am willing to work hard. At least it would be my own, I can set my hours and work from home.

The problem is that everyone I've talked to about it says it is a good idea but leaving my job is too risky. I figure that there will always be boring admin jobs to fall back on if things don't work out. I think you only get one life and this could be the opportunity to do something that would make me excited to get up in the morning and feel like I have achieved something. I think if I'm not finding the opportunities that I want (in law) then I've got to make my own.

Is it a ridiculous idea to leave my job to do this? It could potentially all go wrong, I'm so torn.

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ReanimatedSGB · 20/02/2018 13:25

It depends what your business is. if it's MLM, don't even think about it. If you have identified a local gap for a specific skill (or range of products) that you can offer at a price people will pay that will also make you a profit, it might be worth a try.

MadMags · 20/02/2018 13:26

It really does depend on the business!

BikeRunSki · 20/02/2018 13:26

Do you have dependents? Mortgage? Financial commitments?

Savings?

Could you start your business initially in your spare time and build it up before leaving your boring but secure job?

Could you reduce your hours to maintain some income and security?

pinkduckblueduck · 20/02/2018 13:27

Ooh no definitely not MLM, hate those things.

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W0rriedMum · 20/02/2018 13:29

Have you done a business plan? It should outline the things you need before launch (e.g. Facebook page, VAT registration), launch plan, 1st month/quarter/year targets etc.

Can you afford to work for nothing and for how long? Then double it - what would happen if you didn't get paid for that long?

pinkduckblueduck · 20/02/2018 13:33

No dependents and I'm in a lucky situation with no mortgage (inheritance). But I need income for general living costs.
No opportunity to reduce hours. I have some savings but would probably need more to cover a gap in earnings but not sure how many months cover I would need?
I could try starting it up while still working but was hoping to avoid doing this.

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Fosterdog123 · 20/02/2018 13:38

Defo 100% do it. It's so easy to get a boring admin role again if you ever needed to and you can always do a bit of office temping too if you need some cash.

fuzzyfozzy · 20/02/2018 13:43

Could you work part time at first

pinkduckblueduck · 20/02/2018 13:44

I couldn't work part time in this job but maybe I could get a different part time job.

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Mumsymcmumface · 20/02/2018 13:48

Bit of a downer coming but really do think this through very carefully.

A “friend” gave up a stable, well paid job with pension, holiday entitlement, sicknpay etc to start a business.

Work their arse off for two years and then a number of factors, that genuinely were their fault, meant it had potential to do really well but wasn’t and they were skint.

Worked harder and harder, borrowed, paid out in interest, for seriously depressed and stressed and needed nothing more than a couple of weeks off and a proper break. Dr advised six weeks off initially, probably three months due to the nature of the depression, it’s impact on the ability to work, and the physical symptoms the depression and stress were bringing about.

Now that’s fine, although far from ideal, when you are employed because you get time off and get paid, and probably get left alone to recover.

It’s not even remotely a viable option when you are self employed and struggling for cash flow. It’s a viscous circle and it’s horrific.

My “friend”’definitely got to a very dark and low place, not helped by the social isolation of going from a job where you interact with people all day to a time when you are by yourself, working long hours and due to trying to limit spending you don’t have the time or money to even socialise with friends.

Self employment can be great for a lot of people, but for a lot of others it’s nowhere near what they expected and can destroy their lives.

Despite this, people just assume if you work for yourself you are minted and hardly have to do anything.

pinkduckblueduck · 20/02/2018 13:58

Thanks @Mumsy I know it will be hard work and that could be stressful for the first few years. The sickness thing does worry me too.
My Dh works from home (although not self employed) so I wouldn't be totally isolated.
I know some people have that perception and it's not one that I share. I know it will not be well paid for at least the first couple of years and I'm not going to make mega bucks.
I'm not making a great wage in my current job it's just that it would lead to more after a while.

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delilahbucket · 20/02/2018 14:11

Get a part time job. Do not underestimate how hard it is starting and running a business. Working hard isn't a term that cuts it, you have to be prepared to carry on working when you are on your knees from stress and exhaustion, and then work some more. You don't really get to set your own hours, you take the work when it comes. My first year I made a loss, the second and third year I earned the equivalent of a part time minimum wage job, by the fourth year I was getting close to a full time income (although not when you looked at the hours I worked). It was only by year five I started to reap the rewards. I do still work silly amounts of hours when busy though and I'm in my sixth year.
It does largely depend on the type of business. A new to market idea will be much harder to start up. You are best off doing it without children in the mix though, but you need lots of savings behind you, or a rich partner!

5amisnotmorning · 20/02/2018 14:11

Do it! Get some savings to back you up. Make a business plan.

almondcroissantplease · 20/02/2018 14:22

I was in exactly that position and spent five days debating it and finally handed in my notice last week. I spoke to many people for advice and generally found that most were against it, the ones who pushed me to do it were the ones who are already self employed and run their own businesses and the ones who knew how unhappy I was.

I am going to freelance in marketing and see where the wind takes me - I've had a couple offers come in since last week! I'm registering as self employed and tax credits should top me up a bit so I won't be struggling. For me, life is too short to be miserable and I want to be in control of my life and not answer to an employer. I already feel happier although sadly have to work my notice!

Why don't you look into being a virtual PA? That way you can charge by the hour and use your admin skills? google People Per Hour.

If anything goes wrong you can find another admin job!

BubblesBuddy · 20/02/2018 14:29

My DH gave up employment with “prospects”. He made a lot more by being self employed and grew his business to over 100 employees. No business has to stay tiny and not grow. I would work part time and start your business. Don’t forget to save for a pension because that will be your biggest loss from no longer being employed.

Law is very difficult for many to progress in. However there are legal depts in companies and in local government that might be worth a look and offer progression.

PrimalLass · 20/02/2018 14:46

I do both - part time job and freelance. But I work in an industry that relies on freelancers (publishing) so it was relatively easy to get going.

patstar · 20/02/2018 15:06

My husband gave up his job to start his own business, I was eight months pregnant at the time. Best thing he ever did, apart from the stresses of being self employed (no sick pay, holidays, sorting out vat and taxes). That was ten years ago.

pinkduckblueduck · 20/02/2018 15:36

I think I'm going to go for it! I'm going to start it at the weekends while working this job and going to look for part time work while setting it up. Then hopefully things will work out and I can do it full time. If not, the boring admin jobs will still be there!

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Fosterdog123 · 20/02/2018 18:15

Exactly and good for you. How exciting. Care to share what you're going to be doing????

pinkduckblueduck · 20/02/2018 18:41

I don't want to put too much info on but its related to the wedding industry and other occasions Smile

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pinkduckblueduck · 20/02/2018 18:43

By the way I don't mean to offend anyone who loves their admin job. I'm just not loving it myself!

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