I had a c-section 3 years ago, was discharged on day 4 with just paracetamol. I actually had to stay in an extra night because I expressed concern about being discharged with only paracetamol - I was on 4 hourly Tramadol in hospital. (Tramadol is recommended over co-codamol now I believe if you're BF, which I was). The nurses said they'd get a surgeon to come down to see me and they might be willing to prescribe me something stronger. The (male) surgeon eventually came down to see me, was incredibly condescending and told me that if I was in that much pain that I couldn't cope with just paracetamol, I shouldn't be going home. He also kept telling me that Tramadol is a controlled drug - as though I was a druģ addict, rather than a couple of days post-surgery and trying to deal with a newborn. I was also desperate to go home, I absolutely hated my stay in hospital, but that's another story.
The next day I just kept my mouth shut when a different nurse/midwife came along to discharge me with just paracetamol. (Incidentally, I don't know why the NHS hands out so many prescriptions for paracetamol when it costs about 25p to buy it in the shop. If they had asked me, rather than handing them out automatically to everyone on discharge, I'd have said not to bother because I had loads in the house.)
A couple of hours after I got home, when my last dose of Tramadol wore off, I was in a considerable amount of pain. I phoned my GP surgery and explained, and less than 5 minutes later a (female) GP rang me back, said she couldn't believe they'd only given me paracetamol, that was ridiculous, and that she'd leave a prescription for a few weeks of Tramadol at reception for me. I could have kissed her.
I've mentioned the sex of the HCPs because I think it's very relevant. No man would be discharged as little as 24 hours after any type of surgery with only paracetamol to take home, never mind after major abdominal surgery, and never mind with a newborn baby to look after. But women are expected to just grit their teeth and put up with the pain. Well done to the women who managed to do that, but I couldn't. People have different pain thresholds, and I also had pre-existing gynae issues including adhesions. And even if I could have just gritted my teeth and bore it, being in that much pain continuously, while not really able to rest due to the baby (I EBF for over a year with no problems FWIW) would have seriously put a dampener on the newborn experience.
I think it's disgusting that this now seems to happen routinely for all women who have had a section. No man would be asked to just put up with the pain when there are effective and safe painkillers available which would enable him to function more normally.
About a year before my c-section, I had a laparoscopy (keyhole surgery) at the same hospital. I was discharged with 2 weeks of tramadol and dicloflenac (AND paracetamol) and instructions to take them all religiously at regular intervals, even if I wasn't in pain at that moment, as painkillers work more effectively that way. That's quite a difference isn't it?
Wow that was long! Can you tell I'm still angry? 