The other night I received a message on facebook from an ex boyfriend that I split from about 4 and a half years ago. This was completely out of the blue as we never talk.
Anyway he says something along the lines of he hopes in happy with my life choices? I think it was a drunk text although it wasn't sent too late....
Was this out of line? I find myself getting angry as a) yeah perfectly happy thanks! And b) its absolutely none of his business either way, he could only know details of my life since I left by stalking social media etc
It just comes across so smug. Yeah I have made choices since I left that maybe not everyone would make etc but I don't have to justify them to him. I could be stumbling through life making mistake after mistake but that's my business surely? Aibu to want to tell him to fuck off? Had 5 years of being treated like a child by him I thought that was over when I left!