False accusations ruin lives
Acquaintance was accused; arrested and went to trial for CSA.
We were all shocked.
He and his family maintained that he was innocent and the child was a manipulative little liar.
After day 3 of the trial, he changed his plea to guilty. (but not before the child was ripped to shreds) and only when it became clear to everyone he not only was guilty but was also going to be found guilty. Got sentenced to a measly 3 years; served about 16 months. And 10 years on the sex offenders register.
Walked out of jail, straight back in to his job; his family; some of his social circle...apparently he'd...served his time.
His daughter still maintains he was innocent. His daughter who he visits daily and is a childminder....
This has been reported to Ofsted and the parole board several times; they're looking in to it.
Other friend was raped; guy got off because CCTV showed he was elsewhere; multiple people disputed this having seen them together on the night in question. Turned out the police looked at the wrong date; case is currently being investigated by the police ombudsman.
I was assaulted by a 'friend', one of our other friends heard me screaming and came to my rescue; our social group at the time fell over themselves to make excuses for him; it wasn't till my (real and happens to be male) friend backed me up was I believed.
None of the above men have had their lives ruined.
Every woman I know has experience some form of sexual assault form minor- hand on knee, to gang rape.
One in 4 women are sexually assaulted or raped in their life times (and these are the ones who can talk about it)
These are 3 incidents I can write about with out having to think hard; I cannot not bring to mind one true false claim; and I should be able to if it's so common
Thread after thread will tell you that many women are repeatedly assaulted; 2 women a week, now nearly 3 are killed but we should put the fact that there is a negligible amount of false rape claims first..........