To contact this person?

[Experiencedout]

I left ex husband, he's not a nice person.
He's does not know where we live.

A mutual old acquaintance of both of us has turned up at a neighbours house in a work capacity. I bumped into said person a few weeks ago and told him I was just visiting a friend and didn't live there.
I do not know if this person is still in contact with my ex husband.

For some unbeknown reason neighbour who talks to everyone has told him all about me and mutual old acquaintance to a point he has realised it is me and they have talked about me.

Neighbour has also told the mutual old acquaintance that ex husband left was a reason connected to ds which isn't true. I left him.
If this gets back to ex husband he would go off on one and now know where we live also.

I have contact details for the person in question as it's on his work van. Would you get in touch with him and ask him not to reveal details or not.

Didn't you post about this the other day?

You could ask him to keep quiet, but he would be under no obligation to. Contacting him might make him more suspicious.

If he is friendly with your ex, he will probably report back either way.

If it was you on the other thread, then the answer is still the same, No you shouldn't.

I thought it was your ExH's cousin?

Oh yeh it was the cousin last time...

Having read the other post (if it is the same poster) it looks like the previous post was written before the neighbour had confirmed that the Op did indeed live in a place she has said she didn't.

I suspect op is being vague as she is scared.

Thats fine Rage but why not continue on old post?

No idea Looby but I can imagine that if I was scared of my ex partner and had just been told that a neighbour being a gossip had put me at risk I might be panicking and not necessarily thinking straight and might post where ever if I couldn't immediately find the post I had created originally.
In fact I would imagine I would be pretty desperate!